Extraordinarily simple

Once in a blue moon Yahoo! news will have an article worth reading.  This one’s entitled “10 Things Extraordinary People Say Every Day,” and while I think this behavior shouldn’t be extraordinary, I do think there are good points in there.  Here’s the executive summary.

  1. “Here’s what I’m thinking.”  Don’t command: suggest and engage.
  2. “I was wrong.”  Admit mistakes.
  3. “That was awesome.”  Make honest compliments.  They are a huge encouragement.
  4. “You’re welcome.”  Accept thanks and praise gracefully.
  5. “Can you help me?”  Four words to show respect and get something done.
  6. “I’m sorry.”  A great way to make a fresh start.
  7. “Can you show me?”  Four words to praise a person and learn something.
  8. “Let me give you a hand.”  Offer specific help.
  9. “I love you.”  Powerful stuff – use responsibly.
  10. Nothing.  Say only what is helpful to the other person, not hurtful or thoughtless.

I disagree somewhat on the elaboration on number 6.  The author makes a good point: a fresh start is easiest to achieve if the person apologizing doesn’t explain his actions.  If the way forward doesn’t require the explanation, then I agree with the author.  Swallow your pride, your need to justify, and your apology will effect more.  But if the action that requires apology is a reaction to the other’s habitual destructive behavior, then at some point that topic needs to be broached.

The first 50 videos of the new camera

We still don’t have a good system set up.  I’m uploading them with the youtube uploader, managing about a dozen overnight in full resolution, so at least in terms of video quality there’s something gained for our loyal readers, even if promptness has taken a brutal hit.

Grouped (roughly) by theme:
Joseph: Picking up and counting, Singing in Japanese, Singing Bappe’s ditty, Reading in German (again), Reading Händel, Picking up with letters, Pi, Counting in French, You Can Count on Monsters (again) (again), Art Inspired by Monsters, Singing by the Drain, Up to 11, 12 and beyond, Ten out of Bed, City Blocks, Green Eggs and Ham (cont’d), A Message from Mommy, Counting in French, Grandma’s Squares Book.

Vivienne: What does the dog say?, Flash cards, Exercising with Mommy, Bend it like Beckham, Too Cute to Perform (again), Brushing Teeth, Jump, Harvest, Chase the Camera, Bunnies, Balcony Chalk, Math Time, Counting in French, Playing together with the Hammer Toy (again), Dancing.

Other family: Four on a couch.

Our surroundings: Janet’s due date surprise, F/A-18 landing (again), Drilling Holes (again), Foundations, After Drilling the Hole (again), Sinking Rebar,

Other: Paradigm Change